495. 12 Wealthy Dreams in 12 Months ..Think You Can Do It??

On this episode, Nellie talks about setting and achieving 12 specific goals for 2025, emphasizing the importance of clarity and specificity. She encourages participants to list their top desires, including health, wealth, and happiness, and to avoid vanity metrics. Examples include attending a Taylor Swift concert, achieving a health goal like 10,000 steps daily, and planning a Halloween Gala. Nellie shares personal experiences, such as wealthy leaping and the importance of proactive energy. The discussion also covers the strategic planning of goals, starting with easier tasks and gradually moving to more challenging ones, and the significance of maintaining a balance between personal and professional aspirations.

We will touch on:

• Wealthy Games Introduction
• Balancing Personal and Professional Goals
• Personal Anecdotes and Desires
• Specificity and Clarity in Goal Setting
• Proactive Energy and Preparation
• Wealthy Leap and Personal Growth
• Monthly Goal Setting and Earmarking
• Strategic Planning and Manifestation
• Daily Habits and Strong Foundation
• Community Support and Accountability
• Final Thoughts and Homework Assignment

Let's Take Some Action:

• Get clear on your top 12 goals, dreams, and desires for 2025.
• Assign target months for each of your 12 items, following the "wealthy ladder" framework.
• Be proactive, flexible, and open to how your manifestations may unfold.

Shout out to Robin Pfeifer for sponsoring this episode!

Transcript

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Welcome to the wealthy games. You didn't know that you were signing up for the wealthy games, but here is the interview process to see if you're gonna pass and be ready to go for the wealthy games. I'm so excited. Okay, so 12 months, 12 wealthy drinks. Do you think you can do it? Do you want to do it? Are you excited to do it? What if you could get the 12 juiciest things that you desire in 2025 and you could have fun doing it? Would you do it? Would you? Would you put in the time and energy and effort to create the 12 juiciest things that you desire? So this does build off the previous trainings that I've been doing about getting everything that you want. Because we're now going to get really, really clear on what are those top 12 things, and they need to be super duper specific so we can actually create them. If they're too vague, it's hard to measure if you if you did it or not, right? If you accomplished the dream, the goal, the desire. And we want to have a well balanced we want to have a beautiful blend of things for you, things for your family, things for maybe, things you want to accomplish professionally. That way you feel like a well balanced human that is pouring into herself. You're pouring into your business. You're pouring into your family, right? Like I have found in years, where my goals and dreams were like so heavy into my business, it actually like hurt my heart, because then I was like, I'm working so hard in my business, and like, my family's not seeing me, or they're not reaping the rewards that I want them to right? So it's I don't want you to chase vanity metrics. I don't want you to chase what you think everyone else wants you to do. I don't want you to chase what you think you should do. I want you to take some time with yourself, okay? And I want you to number a piece of paper, one through 12. And I want you to get really, really clear with yourself. I don't want you to ask your partner. I don't want you to ask your kids. I want you to sit with yourself and say, if you could create anything, anything in 2025 what would be the top 12 things? I want you to think health. I want you to think wealth. I want you to think happiness. I want you to think crazy, audacious, mind blowing, goals, dreams, things that maybe you've had a desire in the past, and then maybe you, like, talked yourself out of it, or you started it, but then we ran away. I've talked about this in previous episodes, because things that you really, really desire always come back. They always come back. Like the Taylor Swift example, I had the desire to go to Taylor Swift. It was just this random, random, random, intuitive download where I was like, I want to go to the Taylor Swift concert. I've already been to the eras concert, but I really, like, I just got this like flood of like the desire, and I got all tingly and excited. And so I started to pursue it, but then I ran away from it, because it wasn't so easy, right? And that pattern can happen a lot if we're not careful. And so when the desire came back at the beginning of August, I couldn't ignore it, so I really do believe what is meant for you always finds its way back to you, and who is meant for you always finds their way back. So it's so beautiful, because I can't think of a better person to sponsor this episode, then Robin, because that is her. We have known each other since we were little, and social media got us reconnected, and when we opened the doors to our passive income school, she signed up on her own, like I never like Chase or beg anyone. I never want people to feel pressured, like I will invite when I feel like it's necessary, or like I feel like I want that, like I want them in there, but seeing her name come through, and she's been so consistent, and she's done the work and put in the time and persevered even when, like, kids have been sick. But I. Love that social media connected us back. She's building her digital business. She is a cake pop business. She's a mom. I just always admired her throughout school, and I just love that social media brought us back together. So thank you, Robin for sponsoring this episode. I feel like the luckiest girl on the planet, like so many people, have been stepping up and supporting The Wealthy Mama Movement in so many different ways, and I'm just I'm very humbled, and I've had to really regulate myself around all that beautiful support and attention, because what's so wild is I'm actually an introvert, so like, having a lot of attention, or a lot of people that want to like, sponsor or join one of our programs, or like everyone that's been like, commenting on my content, like, I've like, if I'm being like, super honest, I've had to, like, just take a moment to, like, take a deep breath and be like, this is okay. You are safe. Like you can handle this. You've got this, right? So I just always try to be real here. Okay, so your homework? Okay, your homework is to sit down. I don't want you to rush this either. If you could create anything, health, wealth, happiness in 2025 what would these 12 things be? Okay? What would these 12 things be? So I will actually share buying with you, because I love being a student. Okay? So this, like I said, this does build off the previous exercises of how to get everything that you want, and now we are chiseling it down to the top 12 things. Okay? Now, when I've done similar exercises with people, it can be easy to be like, I want to be happy, okay, but what's going to make you happy? That's too vague. So these should be very, very specific, very specific. Like, if you want to find a new job, right? That's very specific. If you want to buy a new car, very specific, right? Like, later, we can get even more detailed, of like, okay, what kind of car Ideally, when would you like to have that happen, right? But it should be pretty specific from the get go, so we can, like, run with it quicker. If you want to get healthy, too big, it's too vague. I love you. I'm here to be I'm here to be your loving interruption. What does being healthy mean to you? Is it 10,000 steps a day? Is it losing, like, a certain amount of weight? Is it, you know, counting your your macros, like, what is it for you? Is it going to the gym a certain amount of days of the week? So we want to get really, really clear on, what do you desire? Okay, now this is what's important. When you do this exercise, you're a current version of yourself when you work with me, you wealthy leap really fast like I am unrecognizable myself, because I'm a student of my work, okay, I am unrecognizable from that person in February when She was like, oh, let's go to the Taylor Swift concert. And then she, like, ran away from her desire. I'm so different. I have wealthy leaped in six months, right? Less than six months, so fast. So that's the power of the work that I do. Like everyone that comes into wealthy month, you're going to experience, like, what some people experience in 10 years. You're going to experience it in 30 days without, like, without being overwhelmed and burn out either. Okay, so like, we go deep, we go fast, but we go with joy and happiness and fun, which makes it be so good, so you don't burn out, okay? And so you're a current version of yourself. This may change when you're when you wealthy leap. You may accomplish everything faster than you even think. Okay, so I want you to stay open that like this is your current vision of what you desire, and we're open to all the possibilities. So I just want to say that, because I think that's important, but this gives us a starting point to hit the ground running, right now, right now. If you enroll in wealthy year, there is a warm up phase before 2025 because by the time 2025 comes, I want you to already be warmed up and ready for the game. Ready for the game, ready to go. Not like Okay, now let's go, right so there's a warm up phase. That will happen and you being prepared is absolutely key. Love Well, let me say that again. Wealth loves proactive energy. Wealth loves proactive energy. This has been the loudest, intuitive download for me, very, very recently, the blah ladder that I've talked a lot about is reactive energy. Think about it. When you're tired, most likely it's because you didn't get a lot of sleep, and then you're very short fused. You eat, not so great, right? You're very reactive, and it feels very yucky and blah when you're not prepared for a meeting. You feel very unprepared and reactive. Right? When you're not prepared for a trip. I've been there before where I'm like, Oh my gosh. Like, I did not, I didn't, I did not prepare, like, soon enough, and then I'm like, out the night before, stressed out, and I'm like, I did this to myself. Like, I did this to myself. I've had trips where I'm literally packing and throwing things in a suitcase, and I need to, like, rush to the airport, and it doesn't feel great. I don't love it. That's the blah ladder, right? So the blah ladder is totally reactive energy. And so the more we can get you in proactive energy on every level possible. It feels incredible, like, when your house is picked up, not perfect, right? Like, especially if you live with children, we're not looking for perfect, but when your house is picked up, when, like, when you feel like you've got your together, and you're like, Man, this is nice. That's proactive energy. Like, we already like, well one all of our repurposing content, like, shout out to em. She's so far ahead with all of our repurposing content, she's like, three months, if not four months ahead. And I told her to, like, pause and help us on like, other projects, but she's so far ahead. Same thing with Sarah, she's so far ahead. We're already, like, planned and prepared for wealthy month. Like, we're almost done wrapping up wealthy year preparations, like, what, what? Like I have my house has never been so systematized, so organized, like I'm impressing myself, like, truly, I'm having out of body experiences where I'm like, this is getting good. Like, I've got my popcorn, and I'm like, this is getting really good. Like, look at you go, like you are walking the walk. You are being a star student of your work, and it's just so cool. And if you heard the story from this morning of the guy that stopped me at Walmart and decided to to reign me, scold me, and I, like immediately, stood up for myself. I did not hesitate. I did not waver. I stood in my power. I did not agree to what he wanted me to do, which was move all the way over into like the next lane. I said, No, I'm, I'm safe. Here. You can go around me and I'll, I'll move when I want to move. And what I was telling Sarah was I was, like, that was such a divine universe moment, because I didn't have time to prepare for that moment, right? Like, it's easier to stand in your power when you have time to, like, role, play and plan and prepare. But that was a curveball, moment that it was a test. It was a test from the universe. The universe loves giving pop quizzes. Have you ever set a boundary and then somebody tries to test it, and you're like, oh God, like, is everyone listening to like boundary conversations? It is a pop quiz from the universe. And so I'm so happy that that situation happened, because I was kind but firm and I had no time to prepare. I had no time to prepare. And in previous situations like that, like I shared on the live video this morning, I've had a guy like, at a stoplight get out of his car and tap my window and like, scolded me for not turning left because I didn't feel comfortable turning left. And I like, like, immediately like, turtled and like, said sorry. I'm so sorry, and I immediately regretted it, because I'm like, Nope, I'm not sorry. I am not sorry. I had two kids in the back of my car, and I am a grandma when it comes to driving, and I did not feel safe turning left. It was a huge intersection, and I waited till the next time. But. I didn't stand in my power. I'm trying to remember when that was. I think it was last spring when that situation happened, and so there are no accidents. It's towards the end of September, we're about to embark on our biggest launch ever. I've been energetically preparing, mentally preparing, physically preparing, emotionally, preparing, financially and strategically, preparing like I have put in so much energy and effort, personally and professionally, to be as prepared as I possibly can, from a proactive standpoint, and so it's just so cool that that situation happened this morning because I had no time to prepare, and that just showed me how truly, authentically I really am in a very powerful, energetic state that is like, almost like muscle memory. And I'm really excited about it. And anyone can do this, anyone can do this. So with that being said, that was a little bit of a tangent, but I think it's empower. It's so empowering for you to hear this type of stuff, because you can do this, you've got to put in the time, the energy and the effort. I wish there is. I want there, not even I wish. I want there to be more women showing how simple health and fitness can be. Walk 10,000 steps a day, get your greens shot in every single day. Like I want there being more women showing how easy it can be, how fun it can be, the savings challenges that I've been doing this year the organization, I can't wait to show you every little thing that I've done in my house that has really just, like, simplified my day to day, so I don't have to think so hard like, I share, because I care like and I want More women to win like I truly, truly do, but you've gotta do you've gotta do your part. Okay, so, top, top, top 12, goals, okay, goals, dreams, desires for 2025, we want a good blend of health, wealth and happiness. We want to be very, very specific. Okay, so I'm going to share mine. Okay, so that way you can kind of hear mine in real time. So I'm continuing my tattoo sleeve as planned. So I started it, okay, I started it, and I knew that it was going to carry over into 2025, I'm continuing to grow the hair out. I cannot wait until it is past my shoulders. I'm being I'm gonna take my moment to be on the blah ladder for just a second. It like, does this, like, flippy thing right now? And it drives me bonkers. And it's still not fully long enough to, like, get everything in a messy bun. And so it likes to do this, like little Wendy's, like, Hair flip thing, if I don't blow dry it and it, it's, it's not ideal, but we're working through it. And I'm really proud of the hair growth, because I got through the awkward phase, which was, like the bowl cut mullet, which was not fun. So the hair growth is it's happening. We're going to add some extensions eventually, the mama makeover. We're finishing our savings goal for our next house, which I'm really excited about as I continue to, like, get this house so organized and systematized. I'm like, I kind of like it here. Isn't that interesting. I kind of like it here. I don't want to move as much, but that's important. But I still do want to move. I want our I want a bigger backyard. I don't want as many neighbors, so we're still moving. Okay, universe, you hear that I like it here, but and I'm grateful for here, but we're still moving. Okay? I want so much wealthy mama merch. It's redonkulous, like I want to have surprise boxes show up at people's houses where they've got, like, stickers and hoodies and mugs and hats, and they can, just like, spread wealthy mama merch across the United States and their communities. And like, you get a sticker, you get a hat, like, have stuff for kids, like, just like Joy boxes, like wealthy mama Joy boxes that are, like, filled with merch and spreading the word. And like, everyone's looking so cute and so comfy and all the things so merch. This. We're doing a denim and diamonds Gala. Next year will be a Halloween party in October. I freaking love Halloween. And I'm like, why am I not doing a costume Gala? You know how fun that will be, kids included. So I'm so excited about that. I have always wanted to interview a really big name in my industry, like a huge name, like a Mel Robbins, okay? Or I love Ed Malet, oh my gosh. Like, there's some really big names that I'm like, if I could sit across from you and ask you every question I've ever wanted to ask you, and have an audience or recorded or however it plays out, I want to interview. A desire to interview one big name. I think in another lifetime I was a news anchor. Interviews. I love interviews. I love being interviewed. I love interviewing people. It's like a conversation. It's so fun and it's really relaxing for both sides, because you don't have to like plan and prepare this big production of a talk. I've done lots of keynotes in my life, and they take a lot of time and energy as we're like, an interview, just feels like two people chatting and getting to know each other, and it just feels like fun and authentic. So that is a big desire of mine. It's been a big desire. And I'm like, it's, it's happening, okay, um, I did already have these pre I've already had these done for a while. So yours might take a little bit longer. Next year is our 10 year anniversary, um, and we got married in Vegas, and so we've already decided that we will be going back, but it is on the list to make sure that it absolutely happens. So Vegas anniversary is on the list. We have obviously done a lot of giveaways this year, but I want to go even bigger, like massive all year long. So I have lots of ideas around that. So huge year of giveaways. So that's still a little vague, but we will flush it out. Okay, I have always wanted to be a blogger again. This is we're saying yes to ourselves. Okay, we're done saying no. We're saying yes. Okay, so blogging gets to be a top priority for next year. And really like blogging, like blogging and blogging, it's easier for me to do videos both in the season of life that I am and I'm just I'm naturally like a talker, not a typer, so it'll be like blogging slash vlogging, but I have this whole vision that is already started for my kids that's a private digital archive of their life. They're still young enough that I'm gonna go back in time. I'm gonna go back in time. I'm gonna go back in time and go since they were born. You know how like it back in the olden days, you would like do baby books. I want to do like a digital keepsake. So the the blog name is the venture, The Adventures of Emma and Boone, and it has its password protected. It's, it's only for them, but I want it to literally show their whole life. Like, how cool would that be? Like, even though baby books are cool and, like, home videos are cool, they're not organized, right? They don't like, they don't tell a story. And so, like, the vision with this private blog for them is, like, it will literally be a digital keepsake, a time capsule of their life, like I, I will probably cry the day that they graduate. So it has to be a priority. They're young enough that I can do it, but then I've gotta, like, I get to keep up with it. So like, I'm, I'm raising my standards of like, it's a priority and I want it to happen. Okay, something crazy is a convertible. I'm not sure what that looks like yet, but it keeps showing up for me. I don't know if it means I buy a convertible, if I like rent a convertible for a period of time. If, if a company gives us a wealthy mama convertible, there's just intuitively, it like, keeps. Surfacing, and then we've decided to get a little dog once we move. So that's on the list. So obviously that one's a little bit contingent, but we don't want a puppy. We're done with our puppy face, but in this current version of Nelly. These are the things that I'm like. I do not want to go out of 2025 without these things. Again, I'm wealthy leaping so fast a few different things could happen. I could knock some of these out literally so fast, some of these could change, okay? And I used to get tripped up on that, because I'm like, but I'm changing. I'm changing. Yeah, that's the whole point, right? So we want to stay flexible. Of like, let's say the convertible, it's on this current list. It keeps showing up. But maybe that changes. Maybe it's like, maybe I get to that, maybe I once I'm a different version of myself. Okay, we're trying. We're time traveling. I can always check in with myself energetically and say, Do I still desire that? Right? Like it was in the works to run a full marathon. When I signed up for the half marathon last year, but I still allowed myself to like, do I still want to run a full marathon? And the answer was yes, and so I signed up. And so now I'm doing it. It's like weeks away. How many weeks away is it? I'm looking at my gut lender, where are we? Um, I've lost track of time. Oh my gosh, it's in it's in three weeks. It's in three weeks. So exciting. It's so exciting. Oh, oh my goodness. I'm so excited. I'm so excited. Remember, your brain doesn't know. Your brain only knows what you tell it. So I'm so excited. I really am. And I've been so glad that I've been training, because I've worked so many kinks out in training things that, like the old running backpack that I had, literally, like, I don't even know if it's still here, but it literally, like, gave me, like a rug burn, like a burn. So I returned that one, got a new one, but then the new one, the water wasn't working again, and I'm like, is it me? Like, what's going on? Are running backpacks just that hard to, like, actually work. Um, so I've just, I've worked out so many kings, uh, by practicing. That's the whole point of practice, right? Like, make practice count. So that way when Game Day happens, Game Day is, like, we're good. This is muscle memory. We've worked out the kinks. It's all good. Okay, so your homework is in this version of yourself to get very, very clear on what you desire. Now, where does the 12 months come into play? I'm so glad that you asked. Okay, so your brain does love focus. Let me see if I have another marker. Um, what marker do I want? Let's do green for money. Okay, so your, your brain loves focus. So we're going to go with what is easy first. My brain loves easy. Okay, so the Halloween party, we can already earmark that for. That's going to happen in October, obviously. Why did I spell it like that? That is spell October. Um, obviously there's going to be things that we do leading up to that, but it will the manifestation will happen in October for the Halloween party. Okay, you you can be working on yours as I'm doing mine here too. Okay, this isn't the first time I've done this, either. So if you're like that looked so easy for her, it's because I've spent a lot of time on this. Are you okay? What's wrong? What's wrong? Everything's all right. You say hi to the people. Okay, it's okay. Do. It's all okay. Are you okay if I finish this video real quick, okay, can, can I hold you just right here, and I'll finish it, and then we'll go, okay. All right, cool. All right. So the Halloween party will obviously happen in October. Okay, the Vegas anniversary, our anniversaries in September. Okay, so we're starting to earmark some predictions, if you will. I love saying predictions. We're earmarking and predicting. This marker is very dry. When it makes sense. Some of these things are going to happen, okay, some will be ongoing as well. Okay, so let's look here. What else is very easy. I was earmarking the convertible for my birthday month next year, so August. Okay, let's see what else is easy on here, the mommy makeover we had earmarked for June. Okay, the tattoo sleeve. I've already been talking to her. So we're thinking January, I was earmarking the hair now the hair has to be to my shoulders for extensions, but I was earmarking based on how fast my hair has been growing, of doing February for hair extensions. Okay, what are you looking at that? Okay, I was earmarking the house money deadline by the time she's done with first grade, which is May. Okay, let's see what else is easy. We're gonna say the little dog to be December, because obviously that we have to be in the next house. So we'll just say December. Um, oh, be careful. I'm talking to my my friends. Okay, I'm almost done. Okay. Um, all right. So the other ones on here, merch, year of giveaways and blogging, are all pretty much on going, Okay, but what can happen? Oops. What can happen is we can still say, When are we like? When are we going to put a lot more energy into that? So the the months that I have available that I don't have something earmarked, um, is, let's see here, I have March, April. So let's see here. March can be for merch. March for merch that just even sounds good, okay. Oh, I don't have the big person interview yet. Let's see here. I'm thinking, do intuitive, intuitively, what showed up was November, so we're just gonna trust that. See, I've even done this a few times and but I'm not looking at my my notes. I was looking at my goal list, but um, not my earmarks of like, my my predictions, if you will do to do, to do. And then, although it's the huge year of giveaways, I think what would be this another, here's another intuitive download. July could be like Christmas in July. How fun would that be? And when we're in summer, moms are going crazy, so it could be like a really good distraction, yes. Well, okay, just hold on one second. I'm almost done. Okay, um, all right, and then what's uh, so April is the only month left, I believe. Okay, so blogging. We'll put April, which I love, because that could be right before Mother's Day. Do a ton of blogging. So again, there could be blogging leading up to that, but like, we're just putting some time and energy into sorting everything. So now we have all of our earmarks. This looks like a crazy persons list. Welcome to my break. Okay, so now what we're going to do is we're going to we're going to now put the predictions in order of the months. Okay, so 2025, and then we're going to write January. Hey, can you please stop doing that? I'm. February, March, April, May, June, July, August, September, October, November, December, okay, so the tattoo sleeve was January, Hair is February. March is March. April is blogging. I may is house money. June is Mommy Makeover. July is give away galore. Who knows? Maybe we'll give away a car, you get a convertible and I get a convertible, and we'll be twins. Wouldn't that be cool? I would definitely have to talk to my accountant about that, because it's like, do they need to, like, I'm assuming they would need to put that on their taxes. I'm gonna guess that's where, like, the the Elle Woods in me comes out. I'm like, I'm sure you have to claim that on your taxes. Even when you're at the casino and it goes over a certain amount, you have to to claim it. So giveaway galore in July. August is the convertible. Okay? September is Vegas anniversary, big anniversary. October is the Halloween Gala. Are you gonna come to my Halloween party? Yes, yes. What are you gonna wear? Tinkerbell. I love it. Okay. November is big person interview, okay, and then December was the little doggie. Do you want a little dog? Yeah? Yeah, that'd be cool. Do you think they would cuddle with us? Yeah, oh, put, oh, curious, oh, nice, like in a little purse. Which of the little dog boot names be? What do you think? Probably I lovely, Emma. Emma, that's you, but you're our Emma. We don't want to get confused. Well, you know my name and the dog's name. Oh, we got a thumbs down. Why? I don't know. Oh, maybe it's me. I don't know. Let's see. I know when I do this, you get hearts. It's pretty cool. Is that so cool? Yeah, you want to try it, you've got to make a heart on the screen. Hold it closer. Just patience. Patience. Oh, yours worked. Hearts, hearts, hearts, hearts. Remember when you went on Facebook Live on my on my profile, so if she could go on Facebook Live, you can go on Facebook Live. Anyways. Okay, so now this is all organized. There's a little bit of business here, okay, two choices. Okay, good job. There's a little bit of you know, relationship. There's a little bit of, you know, wealth on here. There's a little bit of everything. Okay, I got it. Okay. Now, are there everyday things like my habits? Yes, but I've already the beautiful part about my habits is they've gotten to a point where I don't have to think about them like I take my ADHD meds every single day, which I know sounds silly, but it's not always easy to remember to take your ADHD meds. But I take my meds every single day. I take my greens every single day. I, on average, hit my 10,000 steps, or some days I have 30,000 steps, right? Like so, I average have 10,000 steps. I get a massive amount of water in. We're so good on our food, like, we still splurge, but like, it's so balanced and it's so easy, so like, there's things that are now on autopilot that I do believe are critical for a strong foundation. That's really what a lot of this year has been. I've called this year like the dress rehearsal, personally and professionally there, and it's still been amazing, but it's been like the dress rehearsal, where we're working out the kinks, we're getting the habits in right, like we're really getting those strong foundational pieces in place so we can massively grow, but not crumble and fail, right? And or burn out, even as we've been planning wealthy year, I was telling Sarah today, like, I don't want even you burning out, so like to be proactive. Let's think about this, right? Like, let's plan and prepare so we don't burn out. It's okay. So once you get to this part, you'll thank me. Okay, because now we have a system in place. Okay? Now, some of these will be pretty easy, right? So, like, I'm already talking to the gal that did my first tattoo. We've already been in communication. Already know her pricing. We're now starting to get, like, on the calendar, that's going to be a pretty man, pretty easy manifestation to make happen. Okay, like I taught you in the Getting everything that you want, it's going to go from easiest to most challenging. So isn't it interesting that even without fully knowing it Okay, subconsciously, yes, but like the stuff at the top of the year for 2025 is easier, tattoo sleeve, hair merch, blogging, the house, money like those are all things that have already they're already in motion. They're already happening. I'm regulating myself around them. I'm planning and preparing for them. That is much, much, much easier than like the Halloween Gala, even though I have tons of event experience that's going to take some time and energy to put in, right? The big person interview. Who am I interviewing? What's their cost, right? Do I fly to them? Are they flying to here? What are we talking about? Is there a camera crew, right? And so although that can absolutely happen, it who I'm becoming on the way to that manifestation is how it will actually happen. So much easier. Okay, and so the we want to take that same framework of what does it what logically makes sense, not only based on the time of the year and also taking the framework of easiest to most challenging. Because wouldn't you know, it okay? Just gonna draw you a little picture. Now, 2025 it's going to be the wrong way in this drawing. Okay, so bear with me, because it's up and down. But if we were doing it like I was drawing it the other day, it would have been reversed. But wouldn't you know it? You now have a wealthy ladder for 2025 it will feel challenging right now for the things that are towards next year, the end of next year, but with that strong foundation of your your healthy and wealthy habits and working on the previous manifestations, it won't feel as challenging once you come to that step, because you'll be an energetic match, right? It won't feel as challenging trying to get it to work. It's okay, yeah. Type something you want to type something. Do you have the caps lock on. Oh, you did, okay, there you go. You want the notes section? Yeah, okay. Well, you like type, okay, type away. Take notes for us. Okay, tell us how to do all the things. What's your big goal for 2025 or a big dream that you have, I got a dream of me, unicorns in real life. Unicorns in real life. We're doing that tomorrow. Tomorrow we go to unicorn world. I'm so excited. Are you so excited? Yeah, I. Big unicorn world. So that's already happening. I'm gonna bring like my my unicorn, like my one unicorn I have. Well, that's a good idea. Yeah. Do you have any other dreams or goals that you can think of? Do you want a YouTube channel your own? Do you want your own YouTube channel? Yeah, I think I could get you some subscribers. I don't know if daddy would be on board with you having a YouTube channel, though, but you can just pop on and come on mine. How about that? Yeah, does that sound fair? Because everyone loves you. Smash the pumpkin. Smash the pumpkin. Yeah, that was last year. Can we do that again? I was already thinking about the baby looking like pink, like blue and pink. Love it, but pink can be in this side, and blue can be in this side, okay, and then we smash it. Yeah, do you know why we smashed the pumpkins last year? Why? Because we were letting go of our fears. Go on, What? What? Oh my gosh. What's the fear that you have? You have a fear. Um, I'm gonna type it. You're gonna type it. Okay. Anyways, I know I got one. You got a fear? Yeah, okay. What's the fear? My fear is not listening a mirror, not not what lifting them a mirror and then hurting myself? Oh, that's, that's a valid fear. Yeah, we wouldn't want you to get hurt. I'm gonna do some. Do you want to show them your wiggly tooth? Yeah, okay, show it's really wiggly. It's the front tooth. Oh, my gosh. It's literally hanging on by a thread. Oh, it's creepy. Like literally is sticking out. It's hanging on. Okay, so now you have your wealthy ladder. So if we, if we were doing it from bottom to top, then January would be down here, so that you're literally climbing your wealthy ladder. Now, just because something is in June doesn't mean that you won't start preparing for it before. So then we still take the same framework that I taught you, and we say the what do we need to do? Okay, or, excuse me, how do we make this happen? And who can support you? So that way we can already start to get some of these things rolling. And like I said, some will be easier than others, but you can already start to say yes to all of your desires. So for example, the convertible. When I did this the first time, a few weeks ago, I went on Carvana to look at convertibles as if I was going to buy one. Carvana is, like, made for moms. They literally will drop off a card to you that you buy, you buy it online, and you have seven days to return it. Like, I just think that that is so cool. And so I was looking at convertibles, and I was like, Oh, I like that one, I like that one. And here was the here. Here was the coolest part about being in that manifestation. It was fun just to be in it, right? It also surprised me, because the ones that I liked were much lower of a cost than I thought. And I was like, Huh, interesting, right? And then I also thought, well, maybe I would just like rent a convertible for the month of August, right? Because here in Ohio, it's so cold and rainy and yucky from like, honestly October to like, sometimes even March. So maybe I would just rent a convertible for 30 days, right? Or maybe a dealership would let me have one for 30 days in exchange for, like, social media marketing. This is why we want to be open to how we get there, when it actually happens, how it actually happens, like all of the things, because there's an infinite amount of ways to create what you desire, you know, devil's advocate. Let's say we find our house that we desire. Next year. We have the house money. We find it, but it needs renovations, and we can't move in until 2026 Well, the little dog may not happen, but could we start to, you know, look at dogs. Or could I volunteer at a dog shelter? Right? Like you can start to be in every single manifestation and start to receive that energy as if you already have it, even if you don't have it in the way that you eventually will have it, have it for. Fully your brain doesn't know that, right? Like when you go test drive a car, the reason why that sales person wants you to test drive the car is because they know psychologically, when you test drive it, you're behind the wheel, right? You have that new car smell, it's quiet, or you've got the radio on right, like the windows are down, like I even remember the day that I test drove my jeep. I was driving around. They let me go by myself, which I actually think is really smart. And that whole time I was like, This is it. This is it. I know this is this is my car. I just knew it in my heart of hearts. And what's really cool about that is I test drove two different Jeeps. The first one, I didn't have that feeling. The second one, which is now my now, my now Jeep, it felt that was like, This is my car. This is my car. And so we can have that test drive car energy with every single thing on your list. Honestly, my my heart tattoo like was the test drive I wanted to feel what it was going to feel like to have a tattoo, a little tattoo, before I went through and got the whole sleeve. And what was so cool about that was as she's doing the little tattoo we're now talking about the sleeve, she's like, Oh my gosh, I would love to do that for you. And I was asking her more questions. I was like, would you break it up into multiple days? What's your rate? And so I was already planting the bigger manifestation as I was doing the smaller manifestation. So you're, if you're not already at the point, you're going to get to the point with manifestation where you're playing chess, not checkers, like everything that I do, I'm always three steps ahead of myself, and it takes a moment to, like, get there, but there is strategy and intention with everything that I'm doing. I knew. So, like the the supplements that I drink, I started with trim, which is very similar to happy juice, and I knew that then I was eventually going to add in my greens shot. So I started with trim, and literally, like, three weeks later, I then added in the green shot, okay, now that I have the green shot, I'm, like, already looking for, like, that next layer of what I'm going to do next, right? And so when we are really being strategic, we're teeing up everything and being just very, very intentional. Like the mama makeover has been happening, been in the works for a while, and I've been saving for it. I've been planning for it. I've been researching about it. I've been getting really curious and serious about like, what does this look like? Why do I want this? What makes sense? I've talked about this on another episode, and I'll talk more about it, but it's not a I need it. I've gotten to a place with my body where I truly love my body and I want it for many reasons that we'll talk about another day. Okay, but a very simple thing for Vegas is we've already talked about it. We already know where we're gonna stay. We know when we're gonna go. It's already in my calendar. I'm already in the manifestation, and it's 12 months away, right? The Halloween Gala. I'm like, Oh my gosh, what date should we do it? Right? Probably, like, maybe the weekend before Halloween. Because, you know, the week of Halloween gets really busy for people. Should I do it at the current venue that I'm gonna have? Should I do a different venue? Right? I'm already starting to think about this season when all the Halloween decorations go 75% off. I should be running to the store like the day after Halloween and be getting some of that decorations for next year. This is the power of being in proactive energy. You can Quantum Leap, or what I like to say is wealthy leap. You can wealthy leap so much faster when you know where you're going and you know why you're going there, and you're also super flexible, right? Like, I'm not married to the idea of, you know, the big person interview, what if the the key person that I want to interview? What if they're not available in November? Am I going to get tripped up on that? I'm like, no, maybe it's in January, but we start promoting it in November. So this is the cool part about like, we've got intention, we've got focus, we're being proactive, and equally, we're open and available for something better. We're flexible, if it takes a little bit longer, or we need to shift something, or we want to shift something. Something else feels better, and maybe I swap it out. That's okay, right? The whole goal here is that we're moving in the direction that your current self feels like it wants to go, and even if then, three months from now, you're then, then version of yourself wants to go a little bit to the right or a little bit to the left, it still is moving in the direction that you desire, and it's just so powerful to trust that everything is happening for you. Like, I was even Yes, can you, like, make a math problem? A math problem? Yeah, yes. Do you want to solve it? Okay, so I was even telling Sarah today. So Sarah and I have, she's my right hand business manager. I was telling Sarah today we were meant like we are truly soul mates, yes, can you let me do some homework? Yeah, we'll do homework. We'll do homework in a little bit. Okay, hold on one second. So we're truly soul mates, because how we met in a Facebook group, there was like 9000 people in there. She then, like, became a client of mine, joined my mastermind. We just got really, really close, and then she, like, came on my team, and just, there's been so many connections of like we were supposed to be together. Like, there's when you do goals and dreams, there's things on your list that you're just like, I know I'm supposed to do this right, like, whatever it may be, or I get excited about something, right? And so just, like, what is meant for you, you just, you just know in your heart of hearts, right? Like, there's just certain things that you just know in your heart of hearts, and it's going to happen. And we just can get to continue to do our part. So anyways, your homework is to put some really thought into this and really get clear, because you can absolutely make those 12 things happen and more. And we want that beautiful blend of health, wealth and happiness, because they all do connect, the happier you are, the healthier you will become, and the happier and healthier you are, the wealthier you will become, like they all connect, and so when we can have a big like a beautiful blend of all of them, it just changes the game. It changes the game. So more to come on all of this, but this is just a little tease of what wealthy year is really designed to do, because it's easy to get the party started. It's harder in those moments of doubt and fear, and if something's not going how you want it to go, or you just want that accountability, right? Like so wealthy year is really designed to to keep the momentum going, as if each month is its own year. Because that like sparkle that we have with that fresh start of a new month or a new year is so delicious. So like, imagine feeling that 12 times next year, right? Like that's my goal when it comes to wealthy year, it is equal parts personal development and business development. And it's very, very intentional, intentionally designed to be that. So that way both sides of you are getting filled up in real time together, so I'm gonna go be mom. You have Hallmark, and I will talk to you very, very soon. Love you. Thank you, Robin, for sponsoring today. You.