489. In Order to Manifest Everything You Desire You’ve Gotta Let Go of Everything Weighing You Down

On this episode, Nellie emphasizes the importance of letting go of burdens to achieve one's goals and desires. She advocates for decluttering life by releasing unnecessary people, places, objects, and tasks that do not support one's aspirations. She suggests starting small, such as organizing a stressful room or discarding unloved clothes, and gradually eliminating what does not align with becoming one's "wealthiest self." This process, supported by a mindset shift, can lead to faster manifestation of dreams and a reduction in stress. Nellie also mentions Martha Brown, a coach who leverages technology to save time and energy, and encourages listeners to assess and prioritize what does not support their best self.

We will touch on:

• Releasing What Weights You Down
• Becoming Your Wealthiest Self
• Taking Actionable Steps

Let's Take Some Action:

• Start small by decluttering a room or evaluating your wardrobe, and gradually expand the process to other areas of your life.
• Continuously ask yourself, "Does this support where I'm trying to go?" when it comes to people, places, objects, tasks, and calendar items.

Shout to to Martha Brown for sponsoring this episode!!!! She’s all about getting your time back with leveraging technology

Transcript

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If you are currently on a path to all your goals, all your dreams, all your desires, and you know that you're capable of making all of them happen like you're like, I can do this, whether it be like leaving your job or losing a certain amount of weight or making a certain amount of money in your business, or finding the love of your life, or traveling the world like I'm talking, like crazy, ridiculous, hairy, scary, amazing, life giving goals and dreams, no matter how crazy they are, if they are placed On your heart, they are 100% so possible, and they're placed on your heart because you're meant to have them like you are meant to have all your goals, all your dreams, all your desires. We get to do our part. And the thing that I have really been practicing, and then I've been so intentional in the last year and a half specifically is giving up and really letting go, releasing everything weighing me down. My favorite question to ask is, Does this support where I'm trying to go? Whether it be a person, a place, an object, something on my calendar, something on my to do list. There is so much stuff around you right now that actually does not need to be there. You are not meant to be a stressed out, overwhelmed human being that also desires this crazy, ridiculous, amazing, fun filled life they like. You've gotta pick a side. You've gotta pick a side and release and let go everything and everyone weighing you down. And you can start small, but you will start to feel this relief. You will start to feel this sense of calmness and excitement, and you'll start to notice that it's actually so much easier to manifest all of your goals, all of your dreams, all of your desires, when you have the capacity to do so when you are overwhelmed, it is so easy to just, like, throw in the towel, right? It's so easy to freeze. It's so easy to like, I don't even know what to do, because there's so many things to do right, whether it be cleaning your house or tasks or offers that you're building in your business. And so when we can actually let go of so much stuff and really simplify, you can go so much faster, so much of your stress does not need to be in your life right now, and so I want you to become obsessed with releasing, with letting go, with really asking yourself and challenging yourself. Does this support where I'm going, whether it be a task, a person, a place, a thing, and if it is a no or even a maybe, you owe it to your wealthiest self to at least put it in that category. You don't have to immediately, like, get rid of it, right? Like, I wouldn't recommend you put in your two week notice today if you're not prepared for it, but we can start small, right? Is there a room in your home that completely stresses you out? Let's start there, right? Or maybe you just don't love your clothes and you feel so blah? Is your wealthiest self feeling blah? No, she is living her best life. And another alter like altered dimension, right? And so in order to become your wealthiest self, you have to be your wealthiest self energetically, mindset and your environment. And this is when the magic happens, so freaking fast, when you start feeling like your best self, your wealthiest self, when you start feeling, thinking and doing like your wealthiest self, you literally create that reality right like you are the sum of all the decisions you've made up to this point. And that can either be a hard pill to swallow, or you're like, oh no. Like, I really like where I'm at, or maybe it's a little bit of both. But here's the most exciting part about this, if we know that you're the sum of all of the decisions that you've made up to this point, then draw a line in the sand that says, Okay, now again, does this support where I am wanting to go? Because every teeny, tiny decision and the big ones will start to create a new sum that six months from now, a year from now, five years from now, you'll be a new sum, hopefully, right? If we want something different, we've got to. Do something different. So shout out to Martha Brown for sponsoring this episode. She is an amazing coach. She actually can help you with a lot of this stuff that I'm talking about. She is the queen of leveraging technology to save you time and energy and to speed up where you're trying to go. So check her out. Give her a follow. Say hello to her. She is seriously one of my favorite humans on the whole entire planet, so go give her some love. I want you to ask yourself, what is not supporting my wealthiest self? It could be your mindset. It could be your home. It could be your car. It could be the things that are on your to do. List things on your calendar, get a punch list going, put it in order of easiest to hardest. Okay, we're kind of doing this like a video game. Like when you start to play a video game, you start on level one, and you're like, Oh, this is actually pretty easy. And then you get to, like, level 10, you're like, Okay, this is a little bit harder, right? And so I have literally been doing this actively for a year and a half, and I'm like, literally, I'm like, so close to where I want to be. And so this is why I know this shit works. Because I I literally, like, I have three more things that I have to clear and release, and I have felt relief over this last year and a half in so many different ways. I can talk about this on another podcast episode of everything that I've done, because I honestly want like that list, because I think that that would be really cool. But let me tell you, holy cannoli, the relief is amazing, and therefore then you have the energy and the capacity for your wealthiest life, for your wealthiest self, clear, get ready and trust the process. I love you.